Connected Life Therapy
with Erik
Erik Reuter, MA, RP-Q
Frustrated With Modren Relationhsips? Unlock Your Confidence & Start Building Real Connections.
Feeling stuck and frustrated trying to find a fulfilling relationship and genuine connection? Tired of the rejection cycle of online dating but unsure how to move forward?
I’m Erik, a certified therapist whos helps young men build confidence, overcome anxiety, and develop real, meaningful relationships—without the pressure to ‘perform’ or be someone you’re not."
Together we will explore the roots of your anxiety, unravel unhealthy patterns and take actionable steps to reach your relationship goals.
Lets Talk! Take the first step and Book Your First Free Session
The Hardships of Modern Dating and Relationships
Modern dating for most men feels overwhelming and unfair—with dating apps leading to an endless cycle of ghosting, and rejection, which can cause massive damage to your self-esteem and lead to intense feelings of hopelessness and depression.
You want to connect, but fear, anxiety, self-doubt, and past experiences hold you back.
You may feel like everyone else has it figured out while you’re left behind.
What We’ll Work on Together
✔ Building confidence – Overcoming self-doubt & Anxiety and feeling comfortable in your own skin. ✔ Building Self-Esteem- Learning to celebrate your success and appreciate what makes you attractive
✔ Understanding rejection – Learning to bounce back stronger
✔ Developing social skills – Navigating conversations & deepening connections in a genuine way
✔ Healing past wounds – Understanding your traumas and core beliefs that are causing you anxiety and holding you back
✔ Taking real action – Moving from overthinking to real-world experiences and practical steps to realize your relationship goals
How it Works
(Taking the First Step Towards Change)
📌 Step 1: Book a free 20-minute consultation
📌 Step 2: Let’s talk directly about the challenges you are facing and how we can work together to actualize your relationship goals
📌 Step 3: Together we will start your healing journey towards building confidence & creating genuine connections and fulfilling relationships
Who I’ve worked with:
•🔹 A young man who has never been in a relationship and feels like he’s “falling behind” his peers. Together, we explored his feelings of inadequacy, reframed self-critical thoughts, and developed a path toward building authentic confidence—starting with small but meaningful social interactions.
🔹 A professional in his late 20s who is successful in his career but struggles to form close relationships. We worked through his fear of emotional vulnerability, unpacked past experiences that shaped his difficulty with trust, and helped him build the skills to create deeper, more fulfilling connections.
🔹 A university student who avoids social situations due to anxiety and self-doubt. Through therapy, we uncovered the negative self-beliefs holding him back, practiced new ways to engage in conversations, and built strategies to navigate modern relationships without fear of judgment.
🔹 A man recovering from a difficult breakup who fears getting close to someone again. We explored the pain of past relationships, worked on rebuilding his self-worth, and developed a mindset that allowed him to approach new connections with trust and openness.
Do any of these stories resonate with you? If you're ready to build deeper connections and a live a more fulfilling life, I’d love to help. Reach out today!
Book a Free Consultation and find out how I can help you.